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The Many Faces of Narcissism and Borderline Traits

The Many Faces of Narcissism and Borderline Traits

Understanding the Roots and Realities

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Julia Samuel
Jan 10, 2025
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In the ever-shifting landscape of mental health awareness, certain diagnoses, like ADHD and Narcissistic Borderline Personality Disorder (NBPD), seem to gain prominence as if they are the latest trend in conversation. This visibility can foster understanding but also risks oversimplification. NBPD deserves nuanced exploration—not just of its causes but of its impact on individuals and relationships.

It is important to remember that it is likely we all have traits of narcissism. NBPD is on a spectrum from full-blown to mild.

To first explain the definition of Borderline personality disorder (BPD: it is a mental illness that affects a person's ability to regulate their emotions):

  • Emotional instability: Intense mood swings, anger issues, and feelings of emptiness.

  • Impulsive behaviours: Reckless driving, self-harm, or other dangerous actions.

  • Unstable relationships: Difficulty maintaining stable and healthy connections.

  • Self-image issues: A distorted or inconsistent self-view.

BPD is typically diagnosed in late adolescence or early adulthood. It's a chronic condition, meaning the symptoms can persist over time. Many individuals turn to substances like alcohol or food to cope.

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